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Supernatural - Castiel fresco

December 2010

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Supernatural - Castiel fresco

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So I have this problem. One of my friends is mad at me and I don't know why. I'm not even sure if she's mad at me. She's stopped talking to me, haning out, and she just generally ignores me whenever I'm around and I'm not really sure why. The only thing that I can think that I did, is that I made a pissed off post the other night and then like two hours later realized how stupid it was and deleted it.

So here's what happened. The other night we were sort of hanging out on the balcony and as a joke/thing I locked my friends out on the balcony. I was sitting right there. Well I just thought they were out there talking but the whole time they had wanted to come in. So they woke up one of my roomates by pounding on the window, and once I realized what they were doing (by pounding) I unlocked the door. They didn't ask to be let in, and I didn't realize that they thought I was like mad at them, so I got angry because instead of just asking me to unlock the door they woke my roomate up. Low and behold it was the most retarded thing ever and I don't know why I was mad about it. So I made an angry LJ post which I later deleted.

So now, I'm not sure if that's why my friend doesn't want to hang out or what or if it's something else. Up until this incident I sort of felt like she hadn't really wanted to hang out with me, like maybe she didn't really want to be my friend but she tolerated me because of our other friends. So I'm not sure what to do. Maybe I misinterpretted something or maybe it's something else. I wish I knew if I had done something to piss her off so I could apologize or if it was just that she's sick of being around me. I know I can be annoying and I honestly wish I could fix everything about me to be this magical perfect person who pleases everyone, but I'm slowly coming to the reality that it's hopeless. You can't please everyone I guess, and I hate that, but that's life. I don't want to lose my friendship with this person, I'm not sure what to do about the situation.

Thoughts and advice are appreciated.

Comments

I think that if people can't be bothered to explain if/why they're angry, then they're not worth bothering with.
Yeah, I can understand that. If things are never resolved then they aren't worth it. I think she may have just needed space.
Maybe just ask them waht is wrong, if it is because of the balcony thing or something else. Explain that you didn'treally understand why you reacted that way or something like that.

I'm not very good in confronting,do if this doesn't make sense.

Good luck -__-
Aww it's cool, I suck at confrontation as well. Thanks for the advice. :)
the balcony thing did piss me off but i'm over it. you're not the only one i've been ignoring. sorry if i've upset you. i've pretty much been not talking to anyone except people i can't really avoid [such as ash, and tiff] because i'm just socially exhasuted. i'm tired of talking and listening and i dunno. i just needed a break. don't worry about it.
p.s. what happened to the other comments people made?
I screened them, because it was weird, I thought if you saw them you might get like mad or something. This post was sort of an advice asking thing but more so it was an apology/peace thing.
Okay, I'm glad you responded. This was basically a peace offering sort of apology thing. I wanted you to know how I felt without crowding you and being like TELL ME WHAT'S GOING ON. I'm glad it's okay, and that you're not uber pissed at me. I'm sorry about the Balcony thing, were you mad about being locked out or the ghey post thing?

Also that makes sense about the socializing thing, I know what you're saying. I went a little crazy when Heather had people over every night... it can be rough/annoying. Just ya know come over whenever you feel like socializing again. It's cool.

P.S. That facial expression Gerard is making is totally something you would do. Heh.